80 Hypothetical Questions for Couples (Fun, Spicy, Deep)

When we have a free hour on a weekend afternoon, my partner and I often engage in hypothetical questions. We dive into imagining different “what if” and “if you had to choose” scenarios about relationship and life.

They are not only effective communication exercises for couples, but they also help improve bond, creating a sense of joy about what lies ahead!

If you’re bored with your daily routine and feeling monotonous, this list of scenario questions will add excitement, spark meaningful conversations, and bring you even closer.

80 Best Hypothetical Questions for Couples: Laugh & Bond Over

The questions below range from fun, spicy, crazy, and weird to deep, romantic, flirty, and even silly. These are different hypothetical scenarios, some of which are too funny to be real, but quite interesting to ponder about!

Fun Questions

If you were to get one superpower, what would that be?
If you could eat only one thing for the rest of your life, what would that be?
If you could open a portal to the past, which year would you go to and why?
If you could invite one famous dead person as a dinner guest, who would that be?
What is the first thing you would do if you had all the money in the world?
Where do you think we should be living if we were not living here?
If dinosaurs were real, could we keep some small ones as pets?
If you gained the power of invisibility, what would you do with it?
If you ever had a movie made on you, who would you like to play your role?
If you had the power to ban one thing forever – what would that be?

Spicy Hypothetical Questions

Would you ever like to be involved in a thre*some with a couple you know?
If a very attractive person of the same gender makes a move, would you respond?
What would you remove if I asked you to remove one article of clothing right now?
If you were to ever try something new in bed, what would that be?
If a cop arrested you, do you think you would be able to seduce him to let you go?
If I ask you to go down on me while I’m driving my car, would you?
How would you react if I didn’t shave down below for a year?
If you were ever asked to make out in a public place, would you be open to it?
If you were asked to perform a romance roleplay, which scenario would you pick and why?
How would you respond if I dared you to wear a buttplug all day?

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Deep Questions

What is that one childhood trauma that you now realize is affecting you deeply?
If you could solve one global conflict completely, which one would that be?
If you could go back in time, what is that one advice you would give to your younger version?
If you had to give yourself a nickname based on your bedroom skills, what would you call yourself?
If you had to describe yourself in one word, what word would you use?
If everything goes as per plan, where do you think you are in the next ten years?
If you were to invite me to volunteer for a cause with you, what would it be?
If I were to ask you – what is that one value that defines you, what would the answer be?
If we met each other for the first time today, do you think we would still hit it off?
What would you do if I ever disagreed with a life choice (marriage, having kids, etc)?

Romantic & Flirty Questions

We met the way we met, but what is your dream scenario for an ideal first encounter with me?
If I asked you to get in my car right now, no questions asked, would you do it?
If I were to ask you to throw your best pickup line on me, what would you say?
How would you react if I were to kiss you on your cheeks right now?
If I were to ask you out for a stargazing date, would you come?
If/when we live together, do you think we can adopt a pet?
How would you react if I sent you drunk texts asking you to come over?
If we were to marry, what would your dream wedding destination be?
How would you react if I told you I had a secret crush on you?
If I were to invite you to a Netflix and Chill date, would you join me?

Relationship Questions

Do you ever see yourself getting married?
Would we make good parents if we have children?
If something happens to me, will you date/marry a new person?
Would you still date me if I gained 100 pounds?
If they made a movie about our relationship, what do you think would be the biggest moment in it?
If not me, who do you think you would have been dating by now?
Do you think we could ever make a long-distance relationship work?
Would you still date me if my political views were opposite from what they are now?
What are some of your relationship goals that you have kept secret from me?
Would you still date me if your parents disapprove of me?

Fun Fact: This is one of my favorite types of hypothetical questions to ask my boyfriend. They help us explore our relationship on a deeper level, start meaningful conversations, and imagine possibilities and “what-ifs” together.

Situational Questions (Hard)

If you could permanently change one thing about me, what would that be?
If you could permanently change one thing about yourself, what would that be?
If you ever wrote an autobiography, what would you title it?
If you were to write a letter to your parents when they were young, what would you write in it?
What is that one thing about me that, had you known, you would not have dated me?
If you could erase one person from history, who would you erase?
If you had an alternate career path, what would you be doing right now?
If you wake up as me one day, what will be the first thing that you do?
If you could make one thing permanently disappear from my wardrobe, what would that be?
Were you to ever set a world record, what would that be for?

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Final Thoughts!

While these are just 80 hypothetical scenario questions that couples can ask each other, there’s no limit to human creativity.

Be creative, romantic, or naughty, and come up with more! After all, sharing a dream, a future, with someone, is what being human is all about.

The list above is based on what me and my partner have asked each other over the years. I hope you like this list. If you have some interesting questions, please share them in the comments below.