110 This or That Questions for Couples: Get To Know Your Partner!

This or That is one of the best question games, especially for couples who have just begun their dating journey. It helps you in multiple ways.

Firstly, you get to know them by understanding their specific preferences and priorities, just like yes or no questions do. Secondly, it’s the perfect icebreaker and conversation starter to set the ball rolling.

I say it from experience as my partner and I had a great time playing this game in the early days of our relationship. But I wish I had access to such a collection. Nonetheless, at least you have it now, so enjoy!

This or That Questions for Couples: A Complete Collection

I have covered various categories so that you can find the perfect questions to match your mood or occasion.

Here’s a quick navigation for your convenience:

So, why not start playing and uncover some surprising insights?

Funny Questions

Pineapple on pizza or ice cream with ketchup?
Walking with your hands forever or eating with your feet forever?
Living through a zombie apocalypse or living through another pandemic?
Drunk dialing an ex or drunk dialing your boss?
A visible tramp stamp or a great tattoo that remains hidden?
A broken bone or a broken tooth?
Having no internet access or having no access to alcohol?
Fight ten banana-sized horses or eat one horse-sized banana?
A safe password that you keep forgetting or a password that can be easily guessed by anyone?
Spending a night in Dracula’s Castle or spending a day surviving Freddy Kruger?

Spicy Questions

Threesomes or just us two?
Making out in public or making out in your bedroom?
Hooking up with an actor or hooking up with a sportsperson?
Quickies or spending long hours in bed?
Foot fetish – creepy or exciting?
Lap dances or a strip tease?
Taking a shower together or spending time in the bathtub together?
Visible love bites or love bites that are private?
Making out in movie theatres or making out in a mall bathroom?
Love without s*x or s*x without love?

Flirty Questions

Fine dining date or cooking together?
A kiss on the cheeks or a kiss on the lips?
A text saying ‘I love you’ or a quick call saying the same?
A solo date or a double date?
Planned dates or impromptu date plans?
A coffee date or a date at the bar?
Side hugs or bear hugs?
Leaving little notes on the fridge or leaving cute voice messages?
A date where we go wine tasting or a date where we go tea tasting?
Getting breakfast in bed from your partner or going on a late-night candlelight date?

Relationship Questions

Being with a partner who shares common interests or being with a partner who is quite the opposite?
Being with a partner who never drinks or being with an alcoholic partner?
A stable, predictable relationship or an unstable but adventurous relationship?
Getting a pedicure together or getting a manicure together?
Attending a friend’s wedding or attending a friend’s party together?
Cheat on your partner or have your partner cheat on you?
Adopting a pet together or opening a joint savings account?
Throwing a big party during the holiday season or spending a quiet vacation at home?
Watching movies of your choice or watching movies of your partner’s choice?
Having a partner who is super organized or having a partner who is full of surprises?

Romantic Questions

A surprise date plan from your partner or a thoroughly planned date night?
Sleeping next to your partner or waking up next to them?
A slow dance in the kitchen or a night of fun at the club?
A romantic foot rub or a sensual back massage?
A simple wedding at the court or a grand event?
A cozy camping date or an adventurous hike?
A partner who never says I love you or a partner who keeps bombarding you with it?
Forgetting your partner’s birthday or forgetting your anniversary with them?
A romantic walk at the beach or a hike that we can take together?
Going on a stargazing date night hike or going to a luxury resort?

Deep Questions

Volunteering with old people or volunteering with orphaned kids?
Starting your own business or having a stable job?
Having one big goal or having multiple small goals?
Having children vs staying child-free?
Marrying your partner or a partnership without marriage?
Living a life full of adventure but limited money or living an ordinary life with financial stability?
Planning for things in advance or going with the flow?
Being great at work with no luck in love or having a great partner but an underwhelming career?
Decision Making: Head over heart or heart over head?
Having the ability to change your past or to know your future?

Dirty Questions

Submitting to your partner or dominating them in bed?
Soft moans or loud screams?
Doctor-Nurse roleplay or Student-Teacher roleplay?
Early-morning s*x or late-night s*x?
Masturbating thrice a day every day or having s*x once a month every month?
Having great s*x in your favorite position or having average s*x in new positions?
One same-gender encounter with someone or no s*x for a year?
Being tied up or being blindfolded in bed?
Having s*x with someone who leaves immediately after or with someone who just doesn’t go?
Getting spanked or spanking your partner?

Sexual Questions

Aggressive and hard pounding in the bed or slow and sensual love-making?
Handjobs or blowjobs?
Being with a partner who is hairy down there or being with a partner who’s shaven?
Great partner with a small tool or an average partner with a big one?
Having a partner who orgasms quickly or having a partner who makes you orgasm quickly?
Less foreplay and lots of s*x or lots of foreplay and less s*x?
Dirty talk in bed or staying silent during s*x?
One-night stands or a long-term relationship?
Having s*x with an ex or having s*x with your friend’s wife?
S*x with an office supervisor or s*x with a college professor?

Personal Questions

Luxury or the simple joys of life?
Beaches or mountains?
Taking a road trip together vs flying to places?
Introvert friends or extrovert friends?
Sports events or music concerts?
Experimenting with new food items or eating comfort food?
Books or movies?
Cooking your food or ordering in?
Summers or winters?
Cars or bikes?

Hard To Answer (Tricky Questions)

Losing the sense of smell or losing the sense of touch?
Missing a friend’s wedding or missing a relative’s funeral?
Having a great job but no time for yourself, or having a lot of time but an unstable career?
Having the power to fly or having the power to be invisible?
Having the ability to never fall sick again or having the ability to heal everyone but yourself?
A free ticket to a Taylor Swift concert or a free ticket to the Super Bowl finale?
Batman or Superman?
Never being able to walk again or never being able to hear again?
Never feel pain again or never feel love again?
Losing all the memories of your past or never being able to remember anything new?

Embarrassing Questions

Being caught cheating in an exam or failing a grade?
Leaving a floater at a friend’s house or being constipated for three days?
Throwing up every time you drink or never getting high again?
Farting at a date or burping during a kiss?
Wearing mismatched socks or torn socks?
Getting caught eating a booger or getting caught eating your earwax?
Pissing your pants in your workplace or pissing your pants in your college?
Send an accidental risque text to your mom, or to your boss?
Tripping on stage or forgetting your lines during a speech?
Get caught farting at your workplace or get caught sleeping on an online call?

Want to continue the fun? Check out the Truth or Drink questions (couples edition) for more laughs and insights!

Final Thoughts!

This is a fun game for everyone and one that always brightens up the party, but it is even better when just you and your partner play it.

What makes this game fun is that choices are often very embarrassing, and sometimes even a little spicy, which ensures that the conversation that follows is not awkward.

All the “This or That” couple questions that you see above will have you pick one of two choices that are put in front of you.

Make sure to be creative and have fun, go for the most bizarre choices and get to see your partner laugh in splits!