120 Questions for Married Couples You’ll Regret Not Asking

The secret to a happy marriage is keeping things fresh, and questions designed for married couples help you do exactly that!

They break free from monotonous talks, start meaningful conversations, thoughtful discussions, and deepen your understanding of each other.

Playing this game will also surprise you as you will find out many new aspects of your partner, as they express their desires, hopes, and ambitions in an unfiltered and honest manner.

So, are you ready to dive in?

120 Questions for Married Couples That Keep The Spark Alive!

After years of exploring all sorts of questions with my wife, I’ve carefully created this list for you. The questions are spread across various genres: fun, deep, and sexual to romantic, relationship, and icebreakers.

Let’s get started!

Fun Questions

If we throw a house party, which celebrity would be invited as the chief guest?
What is that one habit of mine that annoys you the most?
Which of our friends, do you think, will get married next?
Do you think we should adopt a pet?
What is your earliest memory of me?
Which song do you think is ‘our song’?
Where should our next road trip be?
Do you think we should start a podcast together?
Do you think we should get matching T-shirts?
What are some new date night ideas we can try?
Do you think our neighbors are too loud?
Which of my friends do you think is the most boring?
What is that one couple’s experience we should try next?
What is your favorite photo of us?
If they make a movie on us, which actors should play our roles?
What is the best gift I have ever given you?
Do you think we should buy a house together?
Do you think we should host a big Christmas party inviting all our friends?
Which romantic movie should we watch next?
If we ever decide on having kids, what will we name them?
What is something that you think we should do more often as a couple?
What, according to you, should we attempt to cook together next?
Do you think we should go on a hike sometime?
What is the funniest thing that I did that you remember?
Should we start a YouTube channel about our life together?
Do you think we should start a business together?
What concert should we attend next?
Do you ever talk about me at your workplace?
Do you ever dream about me?
If, instead of me, you could be married to a celebrity, who would that be?

Celebrating a date night? I’ve created a special collection of date night questions that couples, married or not, can enjoy.

Deep Questions

How do you view our future together? The next 5 years?
What is something that you wish you would have told me before we got married?
Do you think we are managing our finances well?
What relationship advice would you give to your younger self?
Do you ever get jealous of other married couples?
Do you ever think about having kids, and how different our life would be after that?
What is something about me that you would like to change?
Do you think money plays a role in a happy married life?
Do you think we should take up volunteering for a local cause?
Has something that I have said or done ever hurt you?
Do you think we are equal partners in this relationship?
What is the biggest challenge we have faced in our married life so far?
What is one quality in me that you think defines me as a human?
How do you feel about our marriage now? Is it the way you imagined it to be?
Have you ever thought about living elsewhere, other than where we are right now?
Which disagreement of ours do you still think about?
Do you ever think about how different life would be had we not met?
Would you continue to love me if I became disabled?
How important is physical intimacy in a marriage?
Have you ever held a big secret from me?
Have you ever thought about taking a couple’s therapy session together?
Do you think you would be able to marry someone with opposite political beliefs?
Do you think we get to spend enough time with each other?
How do you feel I have changed over the years we’ve been married?
When you were younger, what kind of person did you want to marry?
What is one marriage-related advice you’d like to give to your single friends?
What is the best part about being married to me?
Do I give you enough space?
What is your biggest fear in this marriage?
Have we ever made a bad decision as a couple? Which was the worst?

Romantic Questions

What is the most romantic thing I have ever done for you?
Do you remember our first kiss?
What was the moment you became sure that you wanted to marry me?
What is the most special gift that I’ve given you?
What is your favorite memory of us as a couple so far?
Do you remember what I wore when you first met me?
Do you remember the day I first told you that I love you?
Do you remember what you were wearing on the day you first met me?
Do you think we can make a long-distance marriage work?
Do you miss me when I go out of town for work?
What made you fall in love with me?
Were you nervous on the day of our wedding?
What, according to you, is my best feature?
What is your earliest memory of me?
What is something about me that has changed in the years we have been together?
What are some little things I do that make you feel loved?
What do you think will make me more upset – you forgetting my birthday or our anniversary?
Were you surprised when I first confessed my feelings towards you?
What is something that I did that upset you the most?
Tell me about a memory of mine that makes you smile.
Which was the best trip that we took together?
How did your friends and family react when you told them we were getting married?
If anyone in your workplace hits on you or flirts with you, would you tell me?
What is the best decision we’ve taken as a couple?
Who, in your opinion, is a perfect couple – someone you want to be like?
What is a misconception you had about me that has changed since we got married?
What is your favorite thing about me?
What is a couple’s goal we should be working on next?
Were you nervous when you first asked me out?
Do you remember what we ordered on our first date?

Intimacy & Sex Questions

Which of the romantic roleplays you think we should try?
Have you ever thought about swinging with another couple?
Which s*x position works the best for us?
How can we experiment more in the bed?
Do you think I am a good kisser?
Do you want to try a threesome sometime?
Have you ever thought about using a toy in the bedroom?
What is something that I do in the bed that turns you on the most?
Have you ever had thoughts about having s*x with someone else?
Do you think I am good at foreplay?
On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate my skill of going down on you?
What is a new s*x position that we should try?
Do you think I am a good dirty talker?
Do you like it when I moan?
What is something that I do that turns you off the most?
Do you like it when I spank you?
Have you ever thought of videotaping us having s*x?
Have you ever thought about watching porn while we make out?
Would you like to be tied up sometime?
What do you think is sexier: a bathtub or a shower together?
Do you like it when I send you dirty texts?
Do you think we should make a make-out playlist?
Have you ever wanted to have s*x with me at someone else’s house?
Have you ever thought about making out in a public place?
Do you like it when we go rougher or do you like it more when it is gentle?
What is something that I do that always turns you on?
Have you ever thought of doing something naughty in the car?
Do you enjoy morning s*x more or during the night?
What are your thoughts on anal s*x?
Touching you on which body part excites you the most?

Want to explore different “what if” scenarios? Give hypothetical questions (couples edition) a try.

Final Thoughts!

The best part about a marriage is that you always have someone to talk to – so make the most out of it. Ask each other questions, which will help you know each other better.

Summing up, there are just two more things I’d like to add here. Firstly, do not lie when you answer these questions, and secondly, believe your partner when they answer the question.

This game, much like your marriage, works on mutual trust! I hope you have a good time.